January 30th - February 1st, 2026 - Good Men and Better Days

(Written on February 7th, 2026)

January 30th, 2026

Good session.

January 31st, 2026

I am wrecked, who the hell wakes up this early on a Saturday??? I treated the highway like a racetrack. I barreled down that thing like fineshyt had family coming over in 30 minutes and I needed to hit before. Ahem-

So the "How to be a Good Man" meeting was NOT red pilled which was so surprising, and so very relieving. I won't get too into it but a lot of these guys didn't have good father figures so not many people could say they knew what a good man was. But near everyone could tell you what a good man wasn't. Seeing all of these guys, most of them middle aged, trying to improve, coming together and really attempting to change what comes next is genuinely moving. My takeaway from the meeting was actually Choso's big brother mentality. It is the responsibility of those that come before to make life better for those that come after.

After the meeting we waited for the crowd to clear. I know these guys wanted Nico and I to interact more but that's not really a modern Segovia trait. The siblings could befriend anyone but the cousins? That's a Ronic trait. So anyway we went downstairs and built shelves for an hour. That room was BURNING!!! It felt like [Tasteless Auschwitz Joke].

The rest of the day was pretty nothing. Videos on youtube and Baldurs Gate. I did a little chatting with this girl I'm into and then I got news from a friend about needing some help moving. I lamented that I wouldn't be able to help, my sister is coming tomorrow and I already have plans to see her.

February 1st, 2026

I wasted the morning, I don't even remember what on.

My siblings and I made our way to bowling, we got there the same time as Ninong and his family -Georgia. We booked the lanes for 2 but I don't think we started until 230. Everyone trickled in slowly. I dunno! Bowling isn't something I have proficieny in writing about. I can write about swords clashing but bowling balls meeting pins is an entirely different battlefield. I just- we had a good time, it was nice seeing my family, my sister was late.

We moved the hangout to Pho, I took all the kids in my car and there wasn't enough space in the car, I packed him up in the trunk but Nene wasn't having it. I think Dinner was better. I sat next to Nico and Nene. Like most things in this life I was in the middle, I just love sitting on the fence whether that be race, sexual orientation, youth. When I turned to my right Nene and I would catch up and share stories are yap with the old heads, when I turned to my left the kids were hilarious to watch. Andie and I ordered off the special Pho menu and this girl had like 4 glasses of tea??? Addict.

From Pho we walked to the bubbletea place, it was Chatime. Nico and I chilled with Andie, just bothering her. One of the eternal joys of this life is being able to bug your younger sister with your younger brother and I am so glad that, that translates to Andie and Nico too. I tried to kidnap Andie before she left but she ran too fast.

When I got home I wanted to hangout more with Nene but I had work in the morning and I was wiped. I gave her a hug and a kiss goodbye and promised to write to her more. Instead I write to you.